Two monks on a pilgrimage came to the ford of a river. There they saw a girl dressed in all her finery, obviously not knowing what to do since the river was high and she did not want to spoil her clothes. Without a thought, one of the monks took her upon his back, carried her across the river, and put her down on dry ground on the other side.
Then the monks continued on their way. But after about an hour, the other monk started complaining, “Surely it wasn’t right for you to touch that woman. It is against the commandments to have close contact with women. How could you go against the rules of monks?” The monk who had carried the girl walked along silently, but finally he replied, “I set her down by the river an hour ago. Why are you still carrying her?”